{"id":637,"date":"2011-01-22T19:23:01","date_gmt":"2011-01-22T19:23:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.saasoft.com\/blog\/?p=637"},"modified":"2011-01-22T19:23:01","modified_gmt":"2011-01-22T19:23:01","slug":"have-we-sentenced-ourselves-to-death-by-meeting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/?p=637","title":{"rendered":"Sentenced to Death-by-Meeting!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.improvementscience.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/Meeting_Emoticon.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-638\" title=\"Meeting_Emoticon\" src=\"http:\/\/www.improvementscience.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/Meeting_Emoticon.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"227\" \/><\/a>Do you ever\u00a0feel a sense of dread when you are summoned to an urgent meeting; or\u00a0when you get the minutes and agenda the day before\u00a0your\u00a0monthly team meeting; or\u00a0when you see\u00a0your diary full of meetings for weeks in advance &#8211; like a\u00a0slow\u00a0and\u00a0painful punishment?<\/p>\n<p>If so then you may have\u00a0unwittingly sentenced yourself to Death by Meeting.\u00a0 What?\u00a0 We\u00a0do it to ourselves? No way! That would be madness!<\/p>\n<p>But think about it.\u00a0We consciously and deliberately ingest all sorts of other toxins: chemicals\u00a0like\u00a0caffeine, alcohol and cigarette smoke &#8211;\u00a0so what is so different about immersing ourselves in the emotional\u00a0toxic waste that many\u00a0meetings\u00a0seem\u00a0to generate?<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps\u00a0we have learned\u00a0to believe that there is no other way and because we have never experienced focussed, fun, and effective\u00a0meetings where\u00a0problems are surfaced, shared\u00a0and solved quickly &#8211;\u00a0problems that\u00a0thwart us as individuals. Meetings where the problem-solving sum is greater than the problem-accumulating parts.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00a0meeting\u00a0is a system that is\u00a0designed to solve\u00a0\u00a0problems.\u00a0 We can improve our system\u00a0incrementally but it is a slow process;\u00a0to achieve\u00a0a breakthrough we need to radically redesign\u00a0the system.\u00a0 There are three steps to doing this:<\/p>\n<p>1.\u00a0First decide what\u00a0sort of problems the meeting\u00a0is required\u00a0to solve:\u00a0strategic, operational or tactical;<br \/>\n2. Second design, test and practice a problem solving process for each category of problem; and<br \/>\n3. Third,\u00a0select the appropriate\u00a0tool for the task.<\/p>\n<p>In\u00a0his illuminating book <em>Death by Meeting<\/em>, Patrick Lencioni describes three meeting designs\u00a0and illustrates with a story\u00a0why\u00a0meetings don&#8217;t work if the wrong tool is used for the wrong task. It is a sobering story.<\/p>\n<p>There is another dimension to the design of meetings; that is how we solve problems as\u00a0groups &#8211; and how,\u00a0as a group, we seem to waste a lot of effort and time in unproductive discussion.\u00a0\u00a0In his book <em>Six Thinking Hats<\/em> Edward\u00a0De Bono\u00a0provides an explanation for\u00a0our habitual behaviour and a\u00a0design\u00a0for a radically different group problem solving process &#8211; one that\u00a0a group would not arrive at by evolution &#8211; but one that has been proven to work.<\/p>\n<p>If\u00a0\u00a0we feel sentenced to death-by-meetings then\u00a0we could\u00a0buy and read these two small books &#8211; a zero-risk, one-off investment of effort, time and money for a guaranteed regular\u00a0reward\u00a0of fun, free time and success!<\/p>\n<p>So if\u00a0I complain to myself\u00a0and others about pointless meetings <strong>and<\/strong> I have not\u00a0bothered to\u00a0do something about it myself then\u00a0I now know that it is I\u00a0who\u00a0sentenced myself to Death-by-Meeting. Unintentionally and unconsciously perhaps &#8211; but me nevertheless.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you ever\u00a0feel a sense of dread when you are summoned to an urgent meeting; or\u00a0when you get the minutes and agenda the day before\u00a0your\u00a0monthly team meeting; or\u00a0when you see\u00a0your diary full of meetings for weeks in advance &#8211; like a\u00a0slow\u00a0and\u00a0painful punishment? If so then you may have\u00a0unwittingly sentenced yourself to Death by Meeting.\u00a0 What?\u00a0 &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/?p=637\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Sentenced to Death-by-Meeting!&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,34,35,42,43,45,46],"tags":[71,155,166,176,181],"class_list":["post-637","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books","category-questions","category-reflections","category-how","category-why","category-what","category-teach","tag-communication","tag-leadership","tag-meetings","tag-misery","tag-motivation"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/637","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=637"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/637\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=637"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=637"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hcse.blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=637"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}